Examine the image of a child's life
So
sometimes it is difficult to accept that your child is grown up and become
independent. But it is
inevitable that sooner or later they get older. And,
as they say, when children are small - you need to solve small problems and big
children are sometimes forced to solve the problem bigger. Examine
the image of a child's life, yet not all lost - sometimes the only right
solution to help avoid big problems.
The transitional age. This
phrase literally brings in awe of those who experienced the world of modern
teenagers close. In
a "perfect" moment right before your eyes once a quiet, docile,
obedient offspring of radical changes: the rude, answers back, Hamit, snarls,
refuses to talk and to comply with requests. In
very advanced cases, and not to contact, comes too late, do not spend the night
at home, something permanent hides, smoke or drink. Moreover, whether a boy or a
girl. In
short, transitional age may prove to be devastating for parents. This can not be prepared. It is impossible to foresee. But there is a positive thing. As
he wrote in his book, a popular American rock musician and author of popular
books for teens and about teens Dee Snider, "awkward age is good because
it goes." And
the main task of the parents - to do their best to ensure that he passed
through with minimal losses for all.
It's
sad but true that very often parents do not even know what their children. Or,
to learn that becoming a teenager, in fact closed in, say, haggling marijuana
at school, - refuse to believe it. We
present a case of life: when a boy of fifteen friends worried that he was often
"indulge" in drugs, they are an anonymous phone call to his mother,
all she was told, was asked to pay attention to her son. And what do you think made your
mother? Nothing. She saw this as a silly joke. It
was only when his son began the real problems with health and law, was not
joking.
In
a much publicized controversial series of Russian director Valeria Gai
Germanika "School"
shows a very "wrong side" of a life of contemporary students. The
film characters drink, smoke, swear, deny any authority, behave very cruelly
and bitterly. Many
critics claim that much exaggeration in the series. But,
unfortunately, some truth in this film certainly is.
The
actual statistics from the field of criminology: since Soviet times the average
age of juvenile offenders has decreased by 2-3 years, and is currently 15-16
years old. A
16-17-year-olds committed 62% of the total number of crimes. Sad
but true: juvenile crime, "younger" every year.
What should I do? This
issue will sooner or later ask themselves concerned parents. Definitely
one thing - trouble is easier to prevent than to remove their effects. In
this case there is a sure way to find out what is really involved in your son
(or perhaps, and a daughter), when located outside the home: to study the image
of a child's life. Many
parents decided to take this step, when there are real reasons to suspect what
was going wrong. But
it is better to check out everything in advance, so that you have time to take
action. Contact
a detective agency for this purpose will be the right solution that will allow
you not to let the situation out of control.
What makes an expert:
- sets the clock monitoring of the child;
- clarifies the area of ??interest of the child;
- studying social circle of the child, gives a brief description of the surrounding figures.
Experts
detective agency "Conrad" will carefully study the image of the
child, will help answer your many questions and, of course, will work quietly
and behind the scenes, in compliance with the strictest confidentiality.
The
task of the parents - to help their maturing child during a difficult period in
his life: teenagers, by definition, vulnerable, vulnerable, defenseless. And
we are ready to do everything possible to help you protect them from serious trouble.